Welcome to another Reddit RoundUp where I answer this week's top Reddit questions on mental health, exercise, and productivity. Honestly, I overstretched myself this week at work, at the gym, and on my personal projects. So, there's not going to be a long intro to today's email cause I'll be using the weekend to recover In today's RoundUp:
How does one even stop scrolling? šššStopping the endless scroll is tough, but hereās a quick list of tips that might help:
Iāve been off other platforms like Instagram and Facebook for ages, but I know theyāre some of the hardest to quit because they only have algorithmic feeds (I think) they are designed to keep you hooked indefinitely. Above all, itās worth stepping back and asking yourself if doomscrolling is really how you want to spend your time. Has your mental health improved after stopping watching the news?Absolutely. Cutting back on news has helped a lot, though itās not like Iāve completely stopped. Let me explain. Watching or reading newsāespecially online newsāis closely tied to the algorithms that keep you engaged. The more you scroll and interact, the better they learn what you like, dislike, and what triggers you. Remember that all platforms are incentivised to keep you scrolling, so they serve up more of what grabs your attention, usually with triggering content or whatever that's sensational enough to keep you hooked, which will mess with your mental health over the long term. That said, I donāt avoid news entirely. Iāll scroll through Reddit in the evenings just to catch up on whatās happening. Sometimes I find things interesting, but most of the time, whatās viral or sensational isnāt actually important to me. Most of the time, my life would not have changed had I stayed ignorant. Whenever Iām back at my parentsā place, I like flipping through their newspaper - they're the only people I know who still pay for a physical subscription. While it's old school, I like it because it's a more contained experience and I'm honestly glad they're (hopefully) not doomscrolling for their news. The overall mindset I try to apply to my daily news consumption is to keep it limited and intentional which has been much better for my mental health. Why do I always feel too tired to exercise?The first step is to rule out any underlying medical issues. Chronic exhaustion isnāt normal and could signal something deeper, like nutrient deficiencies, hormonal imbalances, or other health concerns. Iād strongly recommend getting some basic blood work done, including tests to check your hormone levels. Assuming your health checks out, letās address the fact that you're probably just not motivated enough to exercise. Exercise isnāt always fun. I donāt wake up feeling excited to work out either. Most of the time, it's something I see on my schedule, I do it, and I (hopefully) feel better afterward. Try reframing how you view exercise. Ask yourself: is it tied to your goals in a meaningful way? For me, as I approach 30, Iāve started noticing the little signs of agingāgaining weight more easily, feeling slowerāand those things push me to stay consistent. I know these signs will only get worse with time, and I donāt want aging to define what I can do with my life. Thatās a strong motivator for me, and it might help you to find your own "why" too. Ultimately, the key is showing up. Start small if you need to, but donāt let exhaustionāreal or imaginedābecome a permanent barrier That's all for today's RoundUp! Nicholas Ng |
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